Issue Date: November 9, 2008
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ANN PLESHETTE MURPHY |
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The best toys for your money
With holiday catalogs cramming your mailbox and the economy pinching your pocketbook, toy shopping can seem more overwhelming than ever. To help, here's a primer on "play milestones" so you can choose which toys best fit the child.
Simple puzzles feed a kid's "I can do it!" drive.
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Ages 2 to 4: Chunky crayons, simple puzzles, or toys that feature zippers, latches or sorting challenges feed their "I can do it!" drive. And because sharing doesn't come naturally, set the stage with props like puppets, a pretend workbench or kitchen, and balls -- all more fun with friends.
Ages 5 to 7: Kids this age enjoy games with rules and structure, so board games are a big hit. They are also passionate collectors, so cater to their latest obsession, whether it's rocks or reading. (There's no such thing as too many books!) And if they are busy with school, sports and lessons, then gifts that help them to connect with nature (a butterfly net, a kid-friendly camera) or to veg out (a tent, a stargazing guide) may be the most inspired choices.
Ages 8 to 12: Gifts that celebrate a child's unique talents (a complex model, jewelry-making kits, a soccer ball) are great during the awkward preteen years. And because privacy is paramount, a journal and special pen may prove retro-cool.
Contributing Editor Ann Pleshette Murphy's new book, "The Secret of Play," is new in stores.
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