Issue Date: June 28, 2009
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REYHANEH FATHIEH |
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Have the "sext" talk
Parents should discuss texting with their teen.
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Here's a scary new statistic: One in five teenagers say they've sent or received "sexts" -- sexually explicit cellphone messages or photos. What's a parent to do? Adolescent psychologist Sari Locker advises:
Talk about it, even if you don't think your teen is doing it. Ask for your child's opinion, and listen without judging.
If your child receives a sext, instruct him or her to tell you immediately so you can write down who sent it, the person's phone number and what it was.
Explain that sexts can be seen by friends, enemies, teachers, even police -- and that sexting may be a crime.
Agree on a maximum number of texts and photos your child can receive a week. Explain that you won't limit cellphone use as long as he or she follows the rules.
If your child doesn't abide by your rules, alter his or her cellphone plan to limit text messaging.
Share a news story as an example, such as the teen boy who sent a nude picture of his ex-girlfriend to others. He was charged with distribution of child porn, and she was publicly humiliated.
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