Issue date: Dec 5, 1999
Sen. John McCain's wife, Cindy, talked with Who's News writer Jeanne Wright about her own ideas of a first lady's role, how her family might fit in the White House and her personal battle with prescription drugs.
Q. What kind of a first lady would you be?
A. Traditional first lady for the millennium would be my best
description. I do not step forward on the issues. My style is my
own ... more subtle. I play a very supportive role. I have many different
interests. But having the wonderful opportunity of having small children
adds a different dimension to all this. My children and husband come
first.
Q. Tell us about your family and how you would envision life in the
White House.
A. We have four young children at home [Meghan, 15; Jack, 13; Jimmy, 11; Bridget, 8]. My days now are spent as
a full-time mother. So I carpool and do all those kinds of things. If my
husband was elected, my first priority would be my four children. Not
only do my children come first, but if I can keep things steady and
provide a loving, warm environment, my husband can do his job better.
Q. Have you and your children ever lived in Washington?
A. Our children have never been raised in Washington. They were born
here in Arizona. We wanted our children to have the most normal home
life as possible and we thought we could do that better out here at our
home base rather than in Washington. In normal years, my husband
commutes home to Arizona every weekend. The fun thing we get to do is
play tourists [in Washington].
Q. Since you'd all be living in the nation's capitol if the senator is
elected president, how will you maintain a sense of normalcy for them?
Will you seek advice from any former first ladies?
A. I don't know how you would do that. There have not been any
first families [with small children] in the White House recently.
Q. The Clintons raised Chelsea in the White House. They worked very
hard to guard her privacy.
A. That would be us times four in our house.
Q. You've been on campaign trails before. How do you like being on
a high-pressure presidential campaign?
A. It's great fun. We have a wonderful time. People say you've
been through campaigns before, but I can assure you there is nothing
like a presidential race. We are in this certainly to win, but if we don't
win we have a wonderful life at home. What's wrong with having to
come back to Arizona? We are in a situation where we have the best of
both worlds.
Q. You went on national television in October to talk about your
three-year addiction to painkillers and the shame of having stolen drugs
from the American Voluntary Medical Team, a relief organization you
founded to provide emergency medical care to poor children around the
world. Are you concerned that this episode from your past will hurt
your husband's campaign?
A. No, I am not worried about what effect it will have on the
campaign because it is who I am and part of what happened to me. The
most important thing to me is that I always will be in recovery. I have to
keep myself strong and certainly during a stressful time like a campaign.
Anyone who is in recovery or who has had an addiction anytime in their
life, understands the difficulty certainly surrounding it and the absolute
wonderful experience of going into recovery and surviving the whole
thing. For me, it has been uplifting.
Q. Speaking of your volunteer work, you've been tireless in your efforts
on behalf of needy children. What issues are dearest to you and would
you continue to advocate if you become first lady?
A. Specific issues I'm interested in are adoption ... children's
health care, foster care and volunteerism. One of the things I have
tried to promote in Arizona is being a volunteer and providing a
good example to my children. [As first lady,] I could not only encourage
more people to take time to volunteer, but perhaps encourage businesses
and companies to encourage employees and give them incentives ...
no government programs involved in this ... but company to company
and people to people.
Q. Besides your three natural children, you have an adopted daughter
from Mother Teresa's orphanage in Bangladesh, is that correct?
A. Yes, there were 150 newborn children at the orphanage [where her
medical group had gone]. There were two babies, one with a heart
condition and another with a severe cleft palate. We were taking them
back to the United States for medical treatment. Onboard the flight
from Bangkok to Los Angeles, I realized I couldn't give her up [the baby
with the cleft palate]. It was one of those things. I basically presented
her to my husband. He was so loving about it. Her name is Bridget. She's
8 years old now. She's wonderful.
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