This guy likes me. But will his dog?

I'm not a dog person, but I've met someone really great who is, and I want to get along with his pooch. I've dated people with kids, and I know there's kind of a protocol for the initial meeting. Is there any similar advice on dealing with someone's canine creature?
J.S., Ohio

Taking an active interest in the things that your new love cares about is a huge part of making a relationship successful.

I spoke with Mitchell Frankenberg, co-owner of The Paw House Inns and Resorts. He not only has hosted and heard stories from many couples who came together 'despite' the dog, but he also has personal, firsthand knowledge of your scenario. His bottom line? "It's all in the approach," he says.

Start by asking your honey about the best way to approach his pet. Every dog is different, but most tend to respond well to their name spoken in soft tones.

If there's a reason you've never been a pet person, perhaps you had a fearful experience, be upfront so that your significant other can make sure to control the first few meetings. The last thing you need is a dog jumping on you at the door if you're afraid.

Then, think treats. Often, an introduction with a 'dog-warming' gift goes a long way. If the dog ignores you, know that it's either a power play or discomfort. Respect the distance; he'll eventually come around. Allow sniffing, and dress for possible dog hair.

The payoff? Besides looking like a star in your new partner's eyes for making the connection, you get informed. When Frankenberg and his wife were first dating, she was the non-pooch person coming into the domain of his 7-year-old dog. The result? Doggy bonding and a wedding.

Dogs are like mirrors, Frankenberg says. Their behavior is a reflection on the owner's ability to give and receive love. Good luck!