Brides, remember: Itís the marriage that matters, not the wedding. / Tetra images / Getty Images
Need sense and sensibility handling a problem? Jane Austen, author of classics such as Pride and Prejudice, is here to offer advice. Well, Austenís great-great-great-great-great-niece is here, channeling her.
Rebecca Smith, a descendant of Austenís brother, researched novels and writings to create Miss Jane Austenís Guide to Modern Lifeís Dilemmas, envisioning what ďadviceĒ the writer would give today. From curbing a ďbridezillaĒ to dealing with aging parents, ďJane really knew what she was talking about, and she was so psychologically astute.Ē
Love was often a subject of Austenís work. If youíre looking for your Mr. Darcy, Smith has a word of caution for would-be brides.
ď(She) didnít waste words describing the weddings of Elizabeth and Jane Bennet ó her pen dwells instead on how happy their marriages were.Ē Smith says not to focus on the wedding, but the marriage itself.
Readers taking care of aging parents may find consolation in Austen herself ó she took care of her mother, who was healthy but a handful, as she wrote her sister: ďMy Mother continues hearty ... but her Bowels are not entirely settled, & she sometimes complains.Ē