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It's an anniversary truly worth celebrating:
Make
A Difference Day turns 10.
USA WEEKEND
Magazine's annual day of volunteering has grown into one of
the nation's most eloquent tributes to the American tradition
of helping others. A lot of others. Since the first Make A Difference
Day, more than 10 million volunteers have joined in and, as
a result, millions more lives have been touched and improved.
To mark the significance of this anniversary, USA WEEKEND
has asked some of the country's most prominent and popular
writers to share their ideas of what it means to make a difference.
Their visions -- some insightful, some delightful, all inspiring
-- will appear in issues of the magazine between now and Oct.
28's Make A Difference Day.
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Other Make a Difference Day celebs:
Writer
Anchee Min on the value of education
Wally
Lamb brings the expressiveness of writing to prison inmates
Bestselling
author Matthew Klam is enriched by a handicapped child
Robert
Putnam, writer of Bowling Alone, is optimistic toward youth
Mitch
Albom, author of Tuesdays With Morrie, finds his late teacher's
words live on.
Arthur
author Marc Brown believes where kids read, kids help others
Marc
Parent, Turning Stones author, makes a difference to a dying
woman's cat.
Ana
Castillo, poet and author, tells how a gathering replenishes women
who make a difference.
Ann
Hood, author of Ruby and the upcoming Do Not Go Gentle:
My Search for Miracles in a Cynical Time, comforts the spirit
by feeding the sad, the lost and the lonely.
Justin
Timberlake makes a difference through music
Wish
You Well writer David Baldacci,
learns a lesson from young writers
Patricia
Cornwell, writer of The Last Precinct recalls what a world-renowned
evangelist did for a scared little girl
Open a door
Christopher Paul
Curtis, author of Bud, Not Buddy, hails a hero he overlooked
-- his dad.
I was 10 years old that Saturday in 1963. There was a knock at
the door, and after I opened it I was surprised to see a group of
five strange men standing there. I quickly slammed the door and
ran to get my father. I'd been told many times before not to answer
the door unless one of my parents had told me to, and now I understood
why: These five men were without a doubt the first fifth of that
famous "25 robbers at my door" from the old hide-and-seek rhyme,
and I'd almost let them in!
In a semi-panic I mumbled and jumbled something to my father about a gang of burglars at the door, and he said, "Good. They're right on time." Much to my shock, Dad not only let them in but also shook all of their hands.
The men all worked at Fisher Body Plant No. 1 in Flint, Mich., with my father, and they sat where he told them to at our dining room table. Dad then passed out pencils and scrap paper and, from a box he'd brought home earlier that day, handed each of them a mimeographed sheet of paper with a series of math questions on it.
"We'll start with fractions," Dad said. "How to find the lowest common denominator ..."
The men came for three hours every Saturday, Sunday, Wednesday and Friday for the next two months.
Dad explained to me that the men had taken a test at the factory to be promoted to skilled trades and none had passed the math portion. This test was said to be the reason there was a minuscule percentage of African-American workers in any of the skilled trades at Fisher Body. Dad said he knew they could do the job if they were given a chance. I understood what my father was doing, but
it wasn't until many years later that I appreciated it.
I can still remember how, at that time, I had great admiration for these serious, quiet men. Drifting in and out of the dining room during those three-hour sessions, I saw their patience as they'd go over a problem time and time again. I saw they wanted these jobs so badly that they'd calmly listen to my father say for the hundredth time in the same encouraging tone he'd use with me and my brothers and sisters, "OK, you've just about got it ..." or "That's close, but you've got to remember to factor in ..."
My 10-year-old eyes saw the men's devotion to passing this test as heroic. And it was.
My older, more appreciative eyes see that if there was a King of Heroes he would be my father. In my awe of the hard-working men, I missed feeling awe for the person sacrificing time and labor to help them. In my admiration of these factory workers who wanted to learn so badly, I missed feeling awe of the factory worker who undertook the unbelievably difficult task of teaching higher math to students at that advanced age. In my awe of these men who wanted to improve their families' lives so much that they'd sacrifice hours of family time, I missed the beauty of the man who sacrificed his time to improve other people's lives. Now I see, now I appreciate.
I remember the absolute joy on my father's face when he came home
from work and told my mother, "They all passed! They even want John
to take the test again. They think he cheated somehow. He scored
perfect on the math!"
Next week: Marc Parent, author of Turning Stones.
Photo by: SANTA FABIO for USA WEEKEND
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