USA WEEKEND presents First Lady Laura Bush's exclusive essay on Make A Difference Day
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Once a year on Make
A Difference Day, people of goodwill and good heart unite
for a common cause -- to tend to the needs of others. The
turnout is always impressive. But why?
Part of the answer can be
found in a poll once taken of volunteers in many fields. One
question was, "Why did you volunteer?" More than a fourth
said, "I volunteered because I was asked."
This was just the case in
Quincy, Mass., where 25 women were inspired to mail requests
to friends asking for help for 350 needy children at an under-served
school. The response was tremendous. Those who had been asked
answered with such generosity that the women were able to
host a "literacy party" for the entire student body -- and
194 family members. Every child went home with a new book,
and money was left over for a $500 donation to the school's
media center. These women are among the Make A Difference
Day honorees recognized in this issue. (See Altrusa story,
page 8.)
Make A Difference Day also
began as a request for people to help -- one day a year in
October. Each year, millions turn out. In the words of another
first lady, Lou Henry Hoover, they want to help "those who
desperately want to help themselves but can find no practical
way to do so."
One such compassionate American
is a teenager named Jennifer who wrote to President Bush:
"Today I experienced poverty firsthand. My friend pointed
out a family. He said to me, 'Do you see those people over
there? I served them at the soup kitchen last night. Those
kids haven't slept in a warm bed in all of their lives.' An
issue of this magnitude requires monumental amounts of compassion,
labor, and the perspiration and dedication of the capable
members of society. I am not just writing this letter to you.
I am also joining organizations, helping in soup kitchens,
arranging counseling and offering my hand to all that need
it."
Mighty words from a young
volunteer. Jennifer could have spent her time with her friends,
but instead she made a commitment to help strangers.
Others who set aside private
time for the public good are honored every April by Make A
Difference Day. I am proud to join in recognizing them.
Among them is a couple from
Bryan, Texas, who motivated 65 people to restore a dilapidated
120-year-old church whose small congregation is mostly elderly
and poor. People came from miles around to help. While volunteers
pitched in to paint, clean and repair the church, a pianist
played hymns and the church members sang. The event organizer
said, "I went to Russia, Switzerland and France last year
... and Make A Difference Day was the highlight of my year."
What motivates you to volunteer?
For me, helping a child read and learn is one of life's greatest
rewards. That's what motivates my work as first lady. And
this October, I plan to practice what I preach and volunteer
to teach in a public school during Teach for America Week.
One person alone cannot do
everything. But one person alone can do something.
One of the best volunteering
stories I know is about a woman named Helen Goodrum who earned
an award for her outstanding volunteer efforts at age 88.
At the awards ceremony, she told my husband the following
story:
When Helen was 81, she was
mugged. She was knocked to the ground and robbed. For eight
months, a broken pelvis kept her from her volunteer work.
On her first day back to the hospital, a staff member told
Helen how angry he was about what had happened.
Helen just smiled and said,
"Only one man knocked me down. Two came and picked me up."
In life, it's not what knocks
us down that matters. It's the people who help us up. Each
of us can be one of those people.
On this 10th anniversary celebration,
I salute everyone who works to make the United States of America
a better place to live and realize our dreams. The people
who participate in Make A Difference Day are proof that Americans
are compassionate people. Volunteers are among America's true
heroes.
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